I am 16 and my girlfriend is 15. She has gone down my pants and gave me a hand job. She has had intimate relationships, but wont do anything with me. She says shes scard and not ready because of my size. I am 9 inches and very thick. She wont even put her mouth around it. The thing that bothers me is she has done this with other boys before. I always tell her ill go easy but she doesnt belive me. She also said my balls are to big; they hang about 8.7 inches down. She doesnt want to break up and neither do i since we went out for 5 months, but shes to scard. What can i do to make her less scard, and to bed ready?