My boyfriends son has attachment disorder, aggressive behavior, and post tramadic stress disorder. His mother took off when he was two and wasn't the greatest mother, but I'm not going to get into those details. Anyone familiar with attachment diorder that deals with the problems at home will understand this question because you really have to live with it to understand. But for the ones that don't know, these children are pretty much damaged for life for what happened to them in the first year or two of life. They are programed to hate and not trust. They are violent and aggressive and some are very harmful to others and themselves. In some situations like mine, they want to hurt others and kill. I know that sounds harsh, but if you live with a child like this, they will tell you and show you. To others outside the home, they are considered to be the cutest and sweetest kid in the world. With attachment disorder, they are considered to be "fake" or manipulative. My question is, what do you do when you are trying theropy and medication, and nothing is changing (except he's alittle more tired during the day)? We have a 1 year old and a 3 year old. He has tried suffacting our other son, said he was going to smash the babies head in and the list goes on. He's only six years old! We sleep in the living room, between him and the other kids. We are scared. So what do you do? Please don't respond to this if you know nothing about this disorder. It's a very complicated one.