when i was around 7 or 8 my ste father used to have his way woth me, but i never said anything, and it never rly bothered me now that im older, i mean i still have to live with him, but he hasnt tried anything since then. But i just recently told my mom, and she is freaking out! i dont want her to take any action, i just want her to accept it, move on, and act like it was nothing, but she refuses, she is so upset. I dont want her to be, i just want her to be like me, and act like it never happened. Now she wants to make me move to live with family, but i want her to say and do nothing. How do i get her to understand this? I have grown up just fine, im 14 and i have plenty of guy friends, i have no psychological damage, the only thing is that i h8 him, so why cant she just accept it and move on? Why is she so worried and freaking out over it?