i'm apporaching 20 and i have never had a boyfriend..i'm still a virgin. i have guys that show an interest in me, but i'm too insecure to take it further..i dont have the confidence to go out with them. the reason i feel like this is because two years ago i was diagnosed with mild epilepsy and i feel wobbly wenever i go out..i've conquered a lot, so my mum says i dont need to talk to anyone - i've been into town clubbing a few times over the summer and been going to uni, so woop! i'm still really into this guy i liked all through secondary school, who i had a little thing with, but then he went off with another girl in my year. but we're still really good friends,,should i tell him how i feel or forget him? i'm still in contact with him because our families are friends and i still think about him lots and get excited when we flirty text! altho hes turned a bit playerish..but still really nice! so basically help!