My ears are guaged to 7/8s of an inch. I started guaging them around 13 im now alomost 20 so i know i took my time with getting them to the size they are. I noticed when i upguaged the one ( the one was normally a size smaller) to a 3/4 that the ear lobe started to feel not as plump to, say the least, as the other one, However, i kept up guaging because my left ear lobe has so much room to get bigger which i'd like to but id like them both the same size.

Anyway, i was told many different things such as to take them out and down guage or it might be the way my ears were pierced. I noticed when i did take them out for about a week that the slacker ear lobe did get more plump and regain a more healthy color.

So... ( finally) Im wondering if there is anything i can do to help this out as far as lotions, oils ( i read online that massaging olive oil into the lobe a few times a day can help) PLEASE let me know.