me nad my bf have not have sex yet(saving for marriage :-D) but we forlplay alot like kisssing and touhing and i get reallly wet but it....i mean to much..and last night i tryied to finger myself and i went in by my whole middle finger..thr was lots of lubrication..so i wanted to knw is it normal to lubricate so much??? will sex hurt for me??? and if my whole middle finger went in is my cherry popped????