ok, i have made good friends with a girl from my college aover the last couple of weeks. we talk alot on msn and i have gone round to hers to watch films etc where we usualy end up lying on her bed holding each other.

however, the other night i was talking to her on msn and she tells me how she suffers depression and she sees a councillor (which i already new about) . but she also told me that she self harms herself and she doesnt want to live anymore. obviously i was realy shocked and i wanted to help her but she says that its not a big deal.
the more i started caring for her the more annoyed she got with me. she now doesnt know if she wants me in her house anymore and she wants me to forget about her and move on

now i dont know what to do. she clearly doesnt want my help but i think i need to because i fear she will do something stupid.
i want to keep goin round to hers to be there for her but i dont think she wants me to anymore.

please tell me what i can do?

any suggestions..please
i know alot of her history now
she doesnt get along with her parents. (her dad used to hit her).
she isolates herself so her friends dont know her problems like i do now.