I am 15 almost 16 years old and I have my first gynecologist exam in the morning. I am sexually active with my boyfriend of over a year. I'm on birth control and everything. I am scared of the exam. I have a woman doctor that is really mean. My mom told me I can't change doctors though. So I have to deal with it. I'm so scared. Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex it hurts. My vagina is really tight and I'm scared the spectrum will hurt too. I'm nervous. I feel like I'm going to be violated. Please explain the exam if you can to me and how I can get through it.