We are about one year removed from the 2 nd attempt . IT cost her a marriage with 3 children . As we get further away from that episode she has made lots of bad decisions : money management ., men , I feel like there is always a 500 pound gorilla in the room lurking . OH NO do we dare criticize ? What will she do ? She has and can be very easily hurt and offended . I get ill when thinking too much about all this shit , nothing like mental illness to fuck your life up and your grandkids . She continues with therapy , I do not think she tells her therapist the truth . That would be too revealing and the DR. might not think she is as ok as she says she is .