for sexually transmitted diseases? I don't sleep around and have recently had sex with my ex. who got tested because i asked. I care about my health and wonder why people who are more promiscuous than I don't get tested as often as I do. I ask every partner, and they all kinda act like I'm the only one who cares. what's wrong with people??? guys how do you feel when a female has you get tested or do you get tested on your own?