For the last year and a half. I haven't been able to have an orgasm. I have a long distance relationship, and I see my boyfriend every 3 to 4 months. Don't get me wrong we love each other, and have a great sex life, I even had up to 3 orgasms in a night. But now, when we are together, I get excited and enjoy it at first, but after a while the feeling goes away, I dry up, and it actually starts being painfull. And i end up having to fake it, just to get it over with 'cause the pain.

And since he is used to hearing multiple orgasms from me, I even have to fake it, at least twice. I even have tried new things...had spiced it up, to see if that helps... use lots of lubricants... but nothing.

What can I do... is this normal... Am I becoming frigid?
I also don't wanna tell my boyfriend, I don't wanna hurt his manhood feelings