(in men)? I am a 50 year old male & as long as I can remember I have had the urge to urinate anywhere from every 20 minutes to every 2 hours. The Dr. said the frequent need to urinate was due to stress, sexual stress. I cannot fall asleep at night if I don't have sex or masturbate & it has been this way since I was a teenager. Lately I have been having a hard time getting an erection. Even pornography (which I view regularly) is not helping..it is like my body is numb, but my mind is willing. Needless to say I am having a hard time sleeping. Is there a corelation between frequent urination, frequent masturbation, and prolonged use of porn? I've been married for over 23 years and have developed relationships with other women, including sexual relationships. My wife knows the small amount that I have told her but she doesn't know everything. I can't imagine this could be a contributing factor since I had issues with frequent urination, porn & masturbation before I was married. Is this normal?