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I know this thread is a little old but...

I have the same experiences with my wife man it's some hot stuff!

I also found out by accident and started going to bed and pretending to sleep but facing her on the edge of my pillow near her.

She would get going soon after confirming I was asleep with a nudge. When she would orgasm it was pretty obvious as the bed would jitter. Nice feeling.

I started to become a-tuned to her masterbation pattern (i.e. time of night). When she would start I added my own groans (as though I was having a sexual dream as in an in-direct result of her masterbating), made sure I had a juicy hard on. She would then slowly feel down there and confirm then leave herself and start jerking me off. I added a few dry humps to also suggest (you would be surprised what you can get away with while you 'sleep').

Later this developed into full-on sex, while I 'slept' but to make it real I made a point to 'wake up' on orgasm with surprise and 'unable' to hold it back. I would deny to her that I felt her during and that only at the end I woke up.

This turned her on like Chirstmas lights!!

I got more sex this way and the bonus was yes, I was awake and she didn't know :P

It moved on to blow jobs (which was rare for her), and she also used my hands on herself a few times when they were on her thighs.

So to play it all the way guys, just be in such a convenient position and don't be affraid to groan about your fake sexual dream which happens to be at the same time she is playing

Your wife will become less shy during this time, so much fun.

Tip:

They do this often when they have had very good sleep during the week. If they have been going to bed too late and not sleeping well then forget it! My wife is sick now the last week having trouble sleeping due to chest infection and she has not done anything lately.

enjoy

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my gf is addicted to masturbation...she would masturbate in double digits on an average day. so far it seems really exciting to think that eventually when we are married...id have a hell of a blast sex life..but sometimes it worries me that what if she gets attached to masturbation only and having sex with me won't rock her boat.... hmmm only time will tell... i mean i rather have her have sex with me all the time..until i can't do anymore...and then she can masturbate all she wants... but if she puts sex 2nd and masturbation No.1 than im screwd for sure.

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It looks like a few Gents are in the same situation as I am. My wife and I have been married for 21 years - we are both just 41. Our sex life has been always hit & miss. I have had many conversations with my wife about her lack of sex drive and what can be done to improve it as 1-2 times a month really doesn't work for me. These conversations are never angry or accusatory on my side but her replies always very angry and very short. We have had issues which have arose that required marriage counseling which came at her request that I gladly went to without resisting. A few of them resulted in the therapist advised her to not be so controlling. 8 -9 years ago I went through an extended dry spell of a month or two and just figured to just roll with it. One evening I woke up to use the bathroom and my wife wasn't in bed...I noticed a glow coming from the living room and went to investigate. I discovered her humping the floor, completely out of control. I interrupted her with a comment something like, "Are ya having fun" with a smile - she was very angry I walked in on this...it could have been embarrassment too...I can't recall. I expressed that I was hurt by this but also asked if I could help with anything, would she like to pick up some toys or whatever...her reply was simply "no". A day or two later I mentioned that I would be open to anything she might be interesting in trying sexually but again they reply was short & angry. Over these last years since then I have consistently asked if she would like to stop by adult stores for toys, clothing, etc - no pressure from me...some things have improved, others have stayed the same. Over the last year or so there have been occasions where I have woke up by what I thought was the bed kinda shaking but blew it off & went back to sleep. The last month or so has been slow again sexually - I mention it again with the same 'ol replies. Monday of this week I was lucky enough to score some lovin'...what a surprise...I didn't even have to ask. At 2AM I was kicked in the leg and laid there wondering WTF as she was going nutty humping her hand. I gave her a few moments and asked if I could help with anything and she quickly rolled over and commented about a leg cramp or something to that effect. I told her I was really OK with what was going on but also a little disappointed that I have to wait for the stars and planets to align in proper order before she would consider anything. Over the last few days I have asked if we could talk about this, again - was there something we could try together, do you want to experiment with anything new, etc, and I get no reply. I continued on with a comment stating I thought it was kinda hot and perhaps I could watch or even take a few pics but again she shot back with an angry reply. I don't think I plan on asking but I am gonna guess this has just been going on over these last few years. At this point I just don't know where to go with this any longer.

s~s

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My missus plays most nights but also talks in her sleep whilst masturbating talking with her previous lovers it is like being a third person in bed she will answer questions too...........
WHAT IS THE ANSWER ?