Is it cool to go hiking with a girl that is just a friend?

× ??? ra? × q?? ???? · 09-20-2009, 04:05 AM

Nah, I loved hiking with my guy friends. We used to go rock climbing too. It's just that after a certain point it started to get awkward. Sometimes guys and girls can stay friends, but more times than not it doesn't work out forever. One of you will get a boyfriend or girlfriend and it'll get weird for everyone. That was the case with me, but for now I don't see why it would be a problem. Go have fun

Hecka Cool Kid · 09-20-2009, 04:06 AM

Do you think it would be awkward? I don't know why I think it would but thought id ask cause im bored

Katy · 09-20-2009, 04:13 AM

how can hiking be awkward???? if you guys are really friends then you should be doing all sorts of fun stuff together.

Amber · 09-20-2009, 04:16 AM

It doesn't matter what gender you are, if you are friends going hiking then it sounds like you will have fun. Only you can make it awkward.

Awkwardness is a weird one - A person MAKES the situation awkward by thinking it will be awkward, and thus acting awkward and making the other person who was probably fine in the first place feel awkward as well. Do Not even contemplate going hiking with the girl if you think you are going to act like this.

However, Awkwardness is easy to keep away if you know how. Just refuse to get nervous around her, she is just a normal person like yourself

Also, you should really learn to keep the conversation moving, If things get strangely quiet then ask her about herself - people LOVE talking about themselves. Ask her about her family, her friends, gossip with her, her schooling, her work, her hobbies, her talents, her pets, her favorite foods, talk about hiking, and how beautiful the area is...

Good Luck, I think you shall be fine

rsillas1972 · 09-21-2009, 04:06 AM

Your probably young, and just the idea of this is weird to you, and just because your board this is a real issue to you. So let me ask you.. is the reason this is weird to you is because this girl mean a bit more to you than just a friend, but your young, and your stuck in the friends zone.. So this is my advice to you, go out, and go on a hike, and have fun. your young, and your life is just starting, go out there, and have fun

PJ · 09-21-2009, 04:07 AM

yes it is SO cool! you guys are just friends, so whatever! just have fun :]

roc/WLA · 09-21-2009, 04:12 AM

kool yes and cause your buddies dont want too go -whats the deal here ???? id rather go camping w/ girls than not going camping at all whats up with you ??? GO!!!!!

Molly · 09-21-2009, 04:13 AM

yeah that would be fine. hiking sounds pretty innocent

juniper · 09-21-2009, 04:14 AM

it would be cool.

Thomas · 09-22-2009, 04:11 AM

Umm... how is it awkward to go hiking with a girl that is a friend? Dude, it's ok. There is nothing wrong with it and if you two both want to go hiking, then go for it.