INFORMATION:
I have a Nexus 7 rooted and unlocked. i'm running AOKP Jellybean Build 4 ROM. I have installed Terminal Emulator and have added my wife as a user through Terminal Emulator. However, as the other threads mention; my messages, email etc. continue to go through although it is running her profile. I've tried SwitchMe app, however the tablet needs to reboot every time we switch users, which is a huge pitfall with that app.

QUESTION:
How to I get certain apps (google voice, gmail, etc. to stop with the notifications while the tablet is running her profile. I'm talking about the profile made through Terminal Emulator (not SwitchMe).

I've read threads such as this one...

http://www.xda-developers.com/android/switch-user-profiles-on-jelly-bean/

However, I don't know how to allow/disallow certain apps to run even though I'm using one of the listed launchers while using her profile (which I've created through Terminal Emulator).