Thread: Women- why don't men routinely raise the bar for women who enjoy getting

attention from men due to sexuality? Men's behavior continuously astonishes me. Most dance clubs you go to, you have two main groups- the young women who show up to dress and dance seductively with hopes of gaining men's attention/ the young men who show up to fawn over these women with goal of (... ?) getting sex or attention from women I guess.

My question here is why when guys notice that the women are in control in the club, getting all the attention they want (to the point even women you'd consider far unnattractive outside the club are highly desirable at the moment inside it)-- why do guys simply accede to that and just join in rasing women's value even higher in that situation? (thereby making it even more difficult for the men to acheive their objectives)

Ladies, seriously, why don't guys often do the smart thing in this situation and 'raise the bar' for the women? >>The guys want the girls- The girls want the guy's attention<< Why not raise the bar on what it takes to get that attention? -- Examples would be wet T-shirt contests. Wet booty contests. Makeout contests, etc... This way instead of women standing around getting drinks bought for them dancing a little with a crowd of guys watching them-- the women in these situations would need to 'work' for the attention they receive, and in many ways the onus has been reversed here.

But no.... most guys don't think of doing that. Why would most guys be content with -"yeah.. the women are dominating this club, getting all the attention they want. Even the big girls are walking around with their heads in the air thinking they're all that. .. Oh well." ?

Don't get me wrong, many guys do take advantage of this; as you've seen with the advent of porn, stripping, spring break contests, girls gone wild etc.. -- but these things are few and far between. The average club is far leveraged in women's favor. >> Ladies- why?
{Women walk in the club with their hair done and a half way decent outfit and guys jump out of their seats like "oh wow, look- she can walk and breath too! I gotta go buy her a drink and give her attention" - 'thereby reducing myself to a withering sycophant who hold no social value'}
>>> Guys- you see what kind of response logic and 'fairness' illicits from women>> even "feminists"?

My suggestion if you have that much of a problem with it?

Don't go to clubs.

Because guys like you are idiots.