Thread: Why are gay guys 18-30 so mean, cold, and shallow towards someone, even in their...

...own age group? Some are also arrogant, conceited, snobbish, and complete jerks when they do not have much to be conceited about considering they live at dance clubs and use their looks to make a living off suckers and older gay guys they play and use. Some use drugs or are obnoxious drunks. I consider them trash. Do you think it has to do with the age, generation, geography, lifestyle, etc.? It's not just older people they discriminate against. You can be a smart, good-looking, average-looking, or decent looking 26-year-old guy and if you don't fit in their group or look like a porn star or model they either won't speak to you, turn their nose up at you, or condemn you about your looks, personality, or style of clothes. I hate people like that. I don't go clubbing much because of this. They act like they are still in school, like who's popular and who's not. They can at least be decent, friendly, or make friends. I hope karma gets them good. I hope they loose everything! I've met many more gay friendly straight guys or gay guys 35 who are much nicer people with better morals.

I don't think it's just gay guys 18-30 who are mean, cold and shallow: I've met straight men and women in that age group who were every bit as nasty.

People in that age group tend to believe they're invincible and that the problems which beset the rest of humanity won't occur to them.

Problem is: as people age into their later 20s and early 30s, people start getting turned down for jobs, marriages or relationships go sour, health problems do occur -- and everything that goes into "being human" does start to occur.

A lot of guys, both gay and straight, who were effete snobs in their 20s and couldn't be bothered to associate with whom they considered to be the "riff-raff" suddenly start becoming much nicer people in their 30s when they find life really ISN'T handed to them on a silver platter.

I think it's something which goes with the age -- and even then, only certain people within that age. (I've known 20-somethings who were very nice, very considerate people, as well.)

I'm 24 and I'm a nice gay guy, i'm not mean or shallow and don't tend to hang out with a group that is. Don't sterotype gay guys by age.