My grandfather and i have been really close all througout my life, and im gettin older now, and i really want to tell him that im gay, because he is such a big part of my life and being gay is my life lol. and i just want to tell him, i have no idea why i want to but its all i have been thinking about latley. i dont know if hes a homophob or if hes pro or againt gay so im really nervous. should i just tell him or should i get over it?