...but gay males tend to be effeminat? even I have read many gays are not effeminate but someone told me gays have more feminine hormones that's the reason they are a little bit effeminate or very effeminate and bi guys.. are manly because they want like girls and boys.. I don't know if is it true or not.. I am a gay and in my country well I live in a small city.. there are not gay bars.. but internet is the only places for a meeting but I am afraid..I don't know how do you meet gay people moreover the bars and internet? or why do bi guys act straight? I always wanted to meet a bi guy because they are manly.