I know some bi men and women are married with the opposite sex.. I dont know why.. but how do you live with your desires with your gender? do you tell your husband or wife that you are bi and you need something with a person of you own gender? are you still confused? or you are totally sure you are bi? how do you like your persons from your own gender? in the case of women.. women very feminine or more or less or buth.. and for guys.. you like guys who are masculine, more or less or too effeminate? are you top or bottom? thanks for answering.. I am gay but I like bi guys