...you in the end? Do you believe that what your religion or what your peers say about you is the way God views you?
If you left a religion and all your peers thought of you as turning your back on God, would you think God thinks this way too?

There is a religion that believes that if you leave them you are turning your back on God and they treat you according to this belief. What would you tell that person who left that religion?

tnybabyd mentioned Matthew 7:1"Do not judge, or you too will be judged.