I did wrong she knows and she is maybe willing to re-consider but is possibly dating another. We have been apart for many months now and I left because I cheated on her, I felt pushed away and did not take the time to communicate my displeasure of her working nights and not giving me my time for dinners and just plain time. I asked her to find something differnet and for a year and she did not even try. My mind wondered and I found someone else who showed me what I was missing, quality time we both deserved. The X's entire family knows what I did and i did not do it because I wanted a piece of ass but rather I was lonely for the companionship and the time I needed with her. I have discussed this with her and we are on the same page as to why but the trust issue is still a factor. I feel that my biggest obstacle is the family and how they feel. In three weeks I am going to have the time to talk to her mother and explain what I did and why. Is this a good idea or not? Love is strong!