I just found out that after several husbands, boyfriends, and guy "friends" my grandmother is now in a relationship with another woman and has been for at least a few years. My mom and I just had The Talk(I had been putting it off because it's pretty embarrassing) and it went better than I expected. She told me she had been bi-curious since her late twenties, and I was able to tell her that I had known I might be bi since sophomore year but had had serious girl crushes since I was nine or ten. I have had close to twenty serious crushes total, exactly half on guys and half on girls. So... coincidence? Is it genes or the sexual openness/choice of the modern age at work here? Or both?