...know how to deal with it !? He claims to be a christian and so am I. However he has this "deep dark secret" which he securly told me. He would deny it if it ever got out, however he has feelings for good looking dudes and loves GAY porn. I so dont support that and i cant get a divorce because in a way I feel traped for financial reasons and I always dont want a divorce because I believe it marriage greatly and we both want to make this work, but he refuses to talk about it with anyone and i absolutely dont know how to deal with it, thus, it leads to arguing. Please help me someone, really...im a little scared...