Thread: My friends think I am a lesbian girl...?

Okay.. They say I touch girls too much.. I dont date guys much. I smile and look at girls funny (which I dont think I do) I give girls a lot of hugs but when I guy asks me to give them a hug I usually say no. They say that I check girls out. I have dated girls before... and I liked it and after that they never seen me with a guy. I really don't care what they think and I am not going to be friends with them.. But what does that sound like to you? Am I maybe Bi? o__O
P.S.. for the person who said lesbian boy I am a GIRL! XD

I dont think at the age of 14... I can REALLY be lesbian... thats the problem o.O

be my friend XD. if ur not lesbian/bi then y b mad, truthfully u sound lesbian.

I have the same exact way and guess what haha I'm a lesbian and I've known since I was 5. I think you might be headed that way, but only you know for sure but all my friends knew before me haha just go with what you like! Good luck!

I would too lol XD

it sounds like you a lesbian or could be bi too
or maybe you just haven't found the right guy.

Wow... You're lesbian or bisexual. Don't act like you're not. If you said you went out with a girl then you're lesbian.

Tell them you're actually a lesbian boy.

Would it bother you if you were a lesbian? Just out of curiosity.
It sounds to me like either way, at the moment, you're just more comfortable with girls, which is pretty normal for a 14 yr old girl. You're right, at your age its probably not definate either way. Just leave yourself open to whatever makes you happiest at the time.
And as for your friends that think you're a lesbian, wink at them and make them wonder

when i was in high school my friends used to think i was gay because i was like a pussy deflector and every time i would ask a girl out they would walk away in discust.

it turns out it was my pickup lines. ex. "i lost my number, can i have yours"

in the end i just dropped out. and still can't get any.

//Am I maybe Bi?//

are you attracted to both genders? Have you ever asked yourself why you usually say no when a male asks for a hug?

It could be that you are more comfortable with girls because you are one, that doesn't necessarily make you a lesbian. Some people have a harder time going outside their comfort zone than others do.

And to me it sounds like you are still figuring things out, which for some people takes a long time, and not so long for others. To each their own.

(and to your other comment. You can be a lesbian at any age. It depends on when you start coming into your sexuality. Like puberty. Whenever you start having sexual feelings for anybody, they can be male or female. being gay isn't always something that you learn. some people might 'switch" later in life, but some people just are homosexual from the start. And it is completely natural. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. We see it in nature with certain species of birds, and even with frogs. No that doesn't mean homosexuals are frogs and birds, it just means its seen in nature. For all of you people who want to twist that comment.)