Thread: my fiances 19 yr old gay son is trying to split us up..?

We have been together almost two years..We are now engaged. I have two young children. He has two adult children. There vindictive and selfish and very spiteful..I'm going crazy here!! I left him with my kids to. As soon as I moved out, his son ripped and removed everything from my childrens room..He was living on his own, and decided he didnt want to pay rent there nor to us. He is Gay and is constanly flawnts it around my children..my kids are 4 and 14 girls..He is mean, and nasty. Is own daughter told my fiance I was a cheat and a whore. I have moved back and moved my children back into there room, and threw his stuff out.

Let's review the situation: You are choosing marrying someone with a psycho family and you're hoping his family will just kind of disappear? It doesn't work that way. When you marry someone, you get the whole package. If you can't handle that, break it off. Besides, it sounds like your man is a coward & isn't trying to make the situation any better. His son is a grown man & needs to get a life. Your fiance needs to tell him that.

Oh, and if you're not ok with his lifestyle, why on EARTH would you make that part of your family? That's like putting a shark in your swimming pool & praying not to get bitten while you swim. Not a very bright idea in my opinion.