He came out 7 years ago when he was 20. I did not even get out of denial until i was 26, and now my friends know and my brother knows too, but i will not tell my paernts. the reason is i see how they reacted to him coming out. my mom said he might go to hell and my dad calls him a "queer" (in the old fashinoed durogatory way, not the enlightend way we call ourselves queers). do you think that im an asshole? do u think my brother would be resentful about thsi? Thanks