Thread: Is my boyfriend gay?? HELP?

I've been dating my boyfriend Henry* for 3 love filled years. He is my everything, I've given him so much, I truely beleived we were soulmates, and were only 16 almost 17. But lately Henry* has been less affectionate and doesn't want to do anything, and I mean anything with me. I have caught him being a little too friendly with my brother Maximo*, our friends, and just random males on the street. I am beginning to beleive Henry* is a homosexual. But I am not sure I mean he siad he loved me and that he couldn't see his life without me(But that was 3 months ago). Do you think he's really gay? Is he lying to get out of our relationship? Is he worth staying in this unsatifying relationship? Should I stay with him and ignore his secret sexuality? HELP ME!!!!! I"M DESPERATE!!!!!!

*names have been changed for privacy reasons

The issue is not him, it's about you. regardless of which way he is leaning the bottom line is are you happy? If you can honestly say no then move on and live your life.

Too friendly like touching and being girl like? Just ask him. Don't torture yourself by not taking action.