my best male friend is gay ?

HI im 14 years old · 08-30-2008

he wanted to have a sleepover why would my mama not let me do it .okay his brother is straight but he hate my very existing with a passion .so why ? i love and respect my mother so i couldn't question her authority .and my mother knows he 's gay

lalalalalala · 08-30-2008

Maybe your mother just has rules for no boys spending the night. Whether he is gay or not.... he is still a boy..... and maybe she just doesn't want you thinking it is okay to have boys over overnight. You can always get together with him tomorrow.... right? Sleepovers aren't always all that great anyway.

?? Nekkid Bootie ?? · 08-30-2008

regardless of if he is gay or not.. its innapropriate for a young lady to have a male sleep over.

Its just not good for your reputation.. teenagers like to spread malicious rumours, and having a boy sleep over is a good way to get rumours started.

hotmomma · 08-30-2008

What if he's pretending he's gay to sleep over? Just kidding. Your mom sounds conservative. No boys - straight or not. Period. My parents are very much the same way.

Allie · 08-30-2008

it is the principle of it. no men no matter what oh and she does not know if you are joking with the gay thing so to be on the safe side i wouldnt either.