Thread: Me and my best friend have had sex and kiss etc.. alot! We're girls, and 17, does...

...this make us lesbian? i dont think we like other girls its just eachother

This is not as uncommon as you think. I have a similar situation with my partner of 28 years. We met in college, became instant friends then eventually lovers. We both tried to go back to males with little success, so realized we loved each other and got hand fasted. I cannot imagine making out with any other female. The very thought of dating/hooking up again scares me. I wouldn't know the games. If we ever broke up, which is very unlikely, I would never search out another lesbian. I might try guys again, but I doubt that. I always tell people that I fell in love with her as a person first, then learned to love her as a woman. True love knows no gender. Just my thoughts.

If you do it alot then apparently both of you like it meaning you are both at least bi, but the two of you could be lesbians. It does not matter how many girls you are attracted to, being attracted to one person of the same gender, and the opposite gender makes you bi.

Your at least bisexual if you like one girl. Don't be so quick to put a label on yourself.

I'd guess you are...if you'd had sex. Are you physically attracted to her?

Yes even if you are not attached to her if you have sex you are. If you just kiss once or twice then you are what they call bi-curious but sex then yes you are bi-sexual.

Same goes for guys.

Yes. It is the same for anyone whatever their sexuallity.

I'd say so, yeah.