ice dragon

i hate living in the south Florida i want to move up north where they have 4 seasons buy my bf doesn't want to move anywhere. is there any way i can convince him that it would be so much better to live up north? i have lived in Florida all my life and i just want to buy a home in a 4 season area. i want snow, fall, summer and spring.
i was thinking of some place like Oklahoma or Nebraska some place we could have a nice vegetable and herb garden.
maybe some fruit and nut trees
i was thinking that if you guys were in a similar situation you could give advice. of course we communicate, lol.
and i thought those states had moderate winters thats why i metioned them. mass. sounds awesome, i will absolutely look in to it.
we are not subjected to any finacial restrictions.
Lucy: it's sounds wonderful, i obviouly have some research to do.
hey kass: well new england is looking better and better, lol we both have issues with NY as we did live there for a time
sounds like a plan Hermes
Waffle: you so understand where im coming from with the south Florida thing. you know it girl HOT and hot it sucks and thanks.
niether one of us is attached to this place in any way, let me clearify. we can go and live anywhere and be happy i would never leave him and vice versa. like i siad earlier research research research! lol i must do that

Kass

You should sit down and have a conversation about this with your boyfriend. If you both can't come to an agreement, then you have to respect his decision to want to live in south Florida and he should respect your decision to move to a northern state, and then perhaps you should both go your own separate ways, because if he’s not going to be happy in a northern state, and if you’re not going to be happy in south Florida, then the relationship won’t work.

As for where to live in the northern US, I wouldn’t recommend Nebraska or Okalahoma because seriously, there’s nothing to do there, but I suppose if you like that, then visit and see what you think, but I would suggest anywhere in New England. I live in Massachusetts and we get all 4 seasons with cold snowy winters. Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Connecticut, Vermont and upstate New York are all lovely places. Maryland and the DC area get all 4 seasons and it's a great area to live.

Cierra N

are u gay?