Thread: I'm confused about my sexuality, am I gay?

I'm 17. My whole life I thought I was gay, but never told anyone. When I was 12, I had my first heterosexual crush. I really did love the girl. Again at 15 I had another female crush. And at 16 I fell in love with two other girls. But the thing is, even though I was in love with them, I wasn't sexually attracted to them. I've been in love with men, and men arouse me. I'm not sure if I'm gay.Lately I've identified as bisexual. Is it possible that I can fall in love with women but not be sexually attracted to them? I know I like men for a fact, but I'm still confused about women. I find women to be beautiful, but I just cannot have sex with a woman. I am not disgusted by women, but they just don't arouse me.

I had the same experiences growing up and I have identified as gay for the past couple of years.

you still love women in the case of romanticism and dating
but you prefer sexuality with men
in my case, im assume your really just bi curious

Sounds like ur gay, welcome to the club it rocks :-)