I am a bit confused. I'm gay and I don't want to be, so I have been looking for resources that could help me understand why I feel this way. I understand the arguments over homosexuality being biological and being born that way, but at the same time I understand the argument of homosexuality being a matter of choice. I certainly didn't choose to be gay, but I do not think I was born gay. I remember growing up with friends and family and we were very curious as children when it came to sex and sexual activities. We didn't know much but we liked what we were doing. We would play "Find and Grind' with the girls and I liked it. When I was 12 years old I was molested. Scared and not knowing what to do this continued for a period of time. I kept that secret for many years and overtime, I guess I developed a sexual appetite for men. I fought in my own mind for a long time saying I was bi-sexual because I was always sexually attracted to women, but ever since my encounter with my molester I have never attempted to have sexual relations with women. Overtime I have become a very reserved type of guy, not saying much very introverted, and sometimes unsociable. I know I need counseling, but I need some real answers. Honestly can homosexuality be overcome, if so can someone point me in the right direction.
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