Ok how i found out my step kid was gay was when i got to my pc check out limewire or browse the web i see all type of gay porn on the computer than he all quit like we don't hold conversations unless its do this or do that.. I been with his mom for a wild now, she know hes gay cause i show her the chit i saw on the internet.I mean i never been in this situation before i just wanna know how to approach it. should i just sit back and let him come out on his own or ask him about it cause i'm tired of this gay chit being on my computer i need help please someone let me know how to approach this bye the way he is 16 and i am 29.