Thread: I need girlfriend help!! bisexuals, lesbians, gays or people who know one...

...of these only!!!? im a lesbian living in new jersey and it is very hard to find a girlfriend since i am only 14 (birthday is april). how can i find one?? i mean im going to a school for arts (im a singer) but none of my classmates (who i have already met in orientations for incoming freshmans) are bi or lesbian...and i am not allowed to go to parties....HELP!!! PLEASE!!!

You are only 14, so you have a loooooong time to have many girlfriends. I say that you just chill and wait. And the more freinds you make, the more chances you'll have of finding out about other lesbians or meeting any.

Good luck!

Being bi/lesbian is just a stage...

you'll want kids later and can't have it with another woman.

You will meet some in school - don't worry.

I wouldnt find dates off the internet because your only 14. It would be a good idea if you joined a lesbian/bisexual club and meet people there.

You are 14. I, in my personal opinion, don't think you need one right now.