Thread: I just found out that I am bisexual!?

I am married, should I tell me wife or should I keep it a secret forever.

I think you should tell your wife, your sexuality is one secret you should not keep from your spouse.

just found out! a relationship / especially a marriage should be based on honesty, trust and love...and as long as you're not cheating on your wife, you should be ok..tell her. if she Truly loves you, she'll except you and you two can move on from this...but i didn't say it's going to be easy.

I'm assuming the two of you are in a monogamous relationship?

I see no harm in being honest with her about it.

congratulations! hehehe... the best thing to be in any relationship is be honest and this is no exception. if you truly feel that you are bisexual then you must tell her. you are not going to go out and engage in sexual acts with other people, let's hope not, but it's something that needs to be told maybe not to other people but definitely to your wife. it's not going to be easy so good luck.

Good relationships and marriages should be honest. Nothing should be kept from the other person for a long period of time.

Good relationships and marriages should be honest. Nothing should be kept from the other person for a long period of time.

What do you mean, you just found out? Do you mean that you are experiencing your first attraction to a man? If you'd felt it before you would already know. So I'd keep it quiet, and see how it plays out. A one time, short term attraction (to anyone) is not worth sacrificing a marriage.