I don't think so. I guess it depends, if you see somebody who is flamboyant and think 'I am going to hate this guy' before you get to know him, there may be a problem. But if you get to know him, and everything about him just drives you insane with annoyance... well some personalities just clash. We all have certain types of people that we just don't get along with, whether it's the 'stoners' or the 'emos' or the 'preps', it's just the way they act that annoys us.
It's not bad to think that as long as you get to know them without prejudice. I mean, some gay guys very intentionally feminize their appearance, but some gay guys do look more 'feminine' and small and graceful just by birth. And who knows, you may find a flamboyant gay guy that doesn't annoy you--or you may just learn to get used to it. Even if you don't, you can't say you didn't try, am I right?
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