Register

If this is your first visit, please click the Sign Up now button to begin the process of creating your account so you can begin posting on our forums! The Sign Up process will only take up about a minute of two of your time.

Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Twitter Linked In Flickr Watch us on YouTube Google+
Results 1 to 6 of 6
  1. #1
    Junior Member hunny's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2008
    Posts
    15
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0

    How To Tell People You Are Bisexual?

    I have a homophobic father, and a homophobic friend, with a maybe homophobic best friend. I don't know how to tell them. >.< Every time I try, I lose my nerve because I think that they'll hate me since I'm bisexual. Any advice on how to come out to homophobic (maybe) friends and parents?

  2. #2
    Member PAULO's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2008
    Posts
    83
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    "Coming Out" is an over-rated melodramatic myth created and perpetuated by the media. Who says you have to tell anyone? Is it really their business who you choose to sleep with?

    I "came out" in my thirties, long after I had moved out of the house since I didn't want to deal with all that crap, but everyone needs to do these things in their own way, on their own time table. If all your loved ones are indeed "homophobic", maybe now is not the best time for you.

  3. #3
    Junior Member Black_Roses's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2008
    Posts
    5
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    Just say it straight up.
    If they hate you because your Bi, maybe they're not your real friends after all!
    Good luck and stay strong.
    And don't let them bring you down or change you.

  4. #4
    Junior Member boots's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2008
    Posts
    19
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    Step one. Convince them that being gay is okay. Or at least try.

    Step two. If they are truely your friends, it should not matter (as long as you don't like them?) because your love life has nothing to do with yalls friendship.

  5. #5
    Member Honesty's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2008
    Posts
    48
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    well dont tell them at least you are legal.. and you can go out and live by yourself.

  6. #6
    Member Honesty's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2008
    Posts
    48
    Downloads
    0
    Uploads
    0
    well dont tell them at least you are legal.. and you can go out and live by yourself.


Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 11
    Last Post: 07-31-2010, 07:19 AM
  2. Why are there no bisexual people here?
    By Ai T in forum The Closet
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 03-22-2009, 05:22 PM
  3. Replies: 0
    Last Post: 03-18-2009, 06:01 PM
  4. Why do people suggest that we LBT people are born bisexual?
    By Daoie. [WOOF!] in forum The Closet
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 02-07-2009, 01:11 PM
  5. Replies: 0
    Last Post: 07-25-2008, 02:42 AM

Tags for this Thread

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
All times are GMT -4. The time now is 01:45 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® Version 4.2.5
Copyright © 2024 vBulletin Solutions Inc. All rights reserved.