my boyfriend and i has been together for 2 years and he is yet to know that i am bisexual how do i tell him with out him freaking out? I know he doesent support it. what should i do?
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my boyfriend and i has been together for 2 years and he is yet to know that i am bisexual how do i tell him with out him freaking out? I know he doesent support it. what should i do?
I don't think there is any "good way" of telling him.
You two are in a relationship and their is (suppose to be) trust and you've compromised that trust by not telling him, and the longer you keep this from him, the more he's going to resent you for it.
Just because one is bisexual (or gay) doesn't mean they have to act on it. If you feel you love your bf and that you feel a sense of loyalty to him, you won't have to act on it.
Ask yourself this: What's more important to you....your relationship with your bf, or living a bisexual lifestyle? Only you can answer that.
Oh btw the way honey...I like girls too.
Simple and direct.
just tell him. if you've been dating for two year, he should love you enough not to care.
Just say.. Whoa! that girls hot and when he looks at you puzzled just say did i forget to tello you im bi?
I dont know ,but if you have been a relationship with him this long im sure he will understand and support you.
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