Thread: Help: I just learnt that my bf is bisexual !?

My bf (of 5 months or so) just told me he liked guys and girls. It hurts knowing that he would prefer having sex with males when I am a female. And yes, he watches gay porn instead or the regular stuff... I'm so confused about everything. I know he loves me, I mean all my friends (who don't know he is bi) Tell me that I am so lucky because just by the way he looks at me they know he truly loves me. But I can't stand the thought of having to lose him to a guy. And he probably will want to try with a dude to confirm he really is bi. But if he really did like me, wouldn't he not cheat on me in the first place? Even if he needs to know if hes bi, I still think it's cheating... And I am not willing to do a threesome, so scratch that off the list.

I really love me bf, and I told him that, I'd be willing to do almost anything for him but not this. If he does try with someone else I will breakup. Do you think that's harsh? I just really want someone else's opinion because he says I'm not understanding him. What do you guys think... and plz be serious.

There is no way around it this is going to be hard. You are going to have to ask yourself if you can live with the idea your man likes other men and even deal with some of his activities in this area he may already have done.

BUT monogamy is monogamy be it with someone who is straight or someone who is bi. If he is with you he should be with you do not accept anything else.

Search your heart and talk to your bf. Only YOU can make this decision.