Thread: Help!! First date.... Bisexual and Lesbian......?

OK so I told this girl a week ago I liked her, we are good friends and she told me she felt the same way....infact she said if she would of known she would of asked me out already. Im 16 and she is 18 were going on a first date next weekend(so it wont be as crowded) to go see "twilight", and shes spending the night. How do I act? what do i do? say? This is my first date EVER and i still havent had my first kiss......but i want her to be my first .... shes been with 3 guys and 2 girls before and has come to realize she is lesbian............. last time she slept over (which is before i told her) i had to hold myself back so much i just wanted to hold her so bad..... so please help!!!
umm also when i said "first" i ment first kiss .....

weve also known each other for about a year now....so its not like were strangers....and iv felt iv liked her since about 7 months ago but i was still struggling with myself at the time and was afriad to tell her..

Just go slow. Let it flow and just see what happens.

Dont push it. And be honest.

I mean I personally am not lesbian or bisexual but just like with ANY one you like. Just go with the flow. If it feels right, just do it.

Hope this helps Doll,
Rebecca(:

Don't forget that you are still a minor, and she could get herself in trouble.

Just don't make it feel uncomfortable for her or yourself
Feeling uncomfortable is the worst feeling, I hate it.

just RELAX lol....have a good time! Dont think so hard about what to do next...it will come easy for u once u get comfortable...when she looks ready just make a move...if she likes u then she's not gonna run away or anything...she prolly wants u just as bad as u want her..::remember that!::

just RELAX lol....have a good time! Dont think so hard about what to do next...it will come easy for u once u get comfortable...when she looks ready just make a move...if she likes u then she's not gonna run away or anything...she prolly wants u just as bad as u want her..::remember that!::