Rather than the typical stereotypical idea that they only, ahem, 'LUST' after each other??

I know gay couples that have been together for YEARS, my mother is friends with a gay couple who have been together for 25 years and raised two classy well-mannered heterosexual children (two twins, a boy and girl who I grew up being friends with). If that's not love I don't know what is. Why deny it? Are you afraid of being wrong? And if they love each other what business is it of yours and really what's the problem here??