Thread: The girl in the dorm next to me is bisexual..so am i, how do i start talking to her?

Im a freshman in college. There is the dorm room next to me who is bisexual. Im questioning my sexuality and also think im bi. I am however not open about it, and im not ready to tell anyone. How can i start talking to this girl or hint to her that i like her?

There is also a pretty big problem. She is kind of a b*tch and no one really likes her. I also never really see her because she isnt around much. Ive never really talked to her before either. I just dont know what to do ive been trying to find someone on campus who is gay and i finally did but idk how to do anything about it. Any suggestions?

This doesnt sound like its going to end well I mean do you even like her or is it just the fact that she's bi that makes you interested cuz if its just that then prepare yourself for some drama.

You could try to find an lbgtq club or organization at your school most colleges have them.
Good Luck and be careful

Tell me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like you just want to talk to her because you're curious, not because you actually like her. How do you know you like her if you have never talked to her? If she's a bitch why would you even want to talk to her anyhow?

I'd advise you to get involved with your college's gay straight alliance, or something along those lines. Just because someone else is a lesbian or bisexual, does not mean you have to like her, or she has to like you.

try and make an excuse to talk to her. maybe try knocking on her door and say "hey my power went out, is yours out too?!", or be like "hey one of my electric outlets isn't working on the right side of my dorm wall, i just wanted to know if your left side of the wall is out too?" and just have a giant picture of megan foxx in a bikini and a giant rainbow right in front of the room lol. you can easily remove the posters after she leaves your room...

Knock on her door and say hi...your in college now. Nows the time to grow up and start acting like an adult and say whats on your mind.

well always got to start somewhere
like there was a new girl in my 6th grade class who liked my Ex so i helped her out and we became friends the next year we hung out all the time.(still dating the guy) she told me one night she was bi and if i had a problem and i didnt..few months past and we started dating but things didnt work out because of my mom, still talk though

so like if you guys pass eachother start off with hi, i like your top
it sounds stupid but it is a start bc you just dont jump into it

and DONT tell anyone less you trust them, and sure they wont spill if ya fight

Why do you want to bond with her? Are you interested in dating her? Have you been thinking of having sex with her? Sounds great. But, I warn you, it could end in tears. I lived in dorms at college too and met "bi" girls as well and they broke my heart. A lot of chicks experiment in college and it isn't for real. Be careful with your feelings.