My friend and I are both guys. On top of my bed we were just kidding around..kind of wrestling...he was trying to pin me down.

Well, he pinned me down. Then he didn't get off. We were both in boxer briefs and I told him to get off but he was like "No, I need to talk to you"

And we talked in that position.
Gay or not gay? I wasn't aroused but then again, I wasn't bothered by it.