I play with my boyfriend back there and he enjoys it? I'm 19 a girl and I've been wanting to play with my boyfriend in that way. I've read up about it and how to massage the prostate.The thought of seeing his twisted in pleasure because of me and what I'm doing to him is such a turn on. He has never said anything about other then he wants to try it on me one day. I don't know how to bring it up and I don't want to make him feel bad or ashamed. I know as a young teen he had a gay experience and he really doesn't like the act that I think he might be bi because of it. How do I go about playing with him, would it be gay if he enjoys it? I don't want him to enjoy it and be ashamed. I don't think that makes him gay but he might, and how should I bring this subject to his attention?