For instance, you either are gay/bi or think you might be gay and you share a bed or maybe even have sexual relations with a girl you consider a close friend? Would it be considered romantic, natural, awkward...? Sorry, trying to think of how best to describe what im trying to ask. Its just that a classmate of mine was telling me today that her boss is gay but is happily married to a woman friend and even has kids with her? Something about this religion. Thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

And apparently the wife knows he's gay.