My wife is a music major and works at a theme park in a musical holiday show. She has always done plays and musicals. It seems that whenever I ask her if anyone has hit on her she just replies "no there gay".

Now, I wouldn't have a hard time believing that most men in musicals and plays and choirs are strait, but for heavens sake, I have heard this almost everytime I have asked for about 3 years. I have a seriously hard time believing that she has crossed paths with that many gay males when I have only about 3-4 times in the last 3 years.


Im sorry, I didnt clarify. I do not always ask her, nor do I care if they do hit on her.


Most of the time its out of joke, but she was in a play where she had to kiss another guy and he totally hit on her the whole play. She never told me during the play because she was scared of my reaction, but yes I care if another man is taking aim at my wife. It has nothing to do with "trust".