told them that he gave me oral sex.? A guy told my whole community of 7,000 people that he gave me oral sex prior to my marriage. I am heterosexual and very masculine, not gay. This rumor has spread among a 100 mile radius so approximately 300,000 people have heard this lie. I confronted him and he said he was just mad when he said it. He is openly gay and we use to ride to work together for two weeks back in 2003 prior to my marriage. My wife even calls me gay when she is mad and then apologizes. She calls me this in front of my kids and friends. Can I sue him and how much could I win? I am so pissed about this lie. Alot of friends of mine think I am gay because of this. I have been depressed and I never knew a lie could spread this rapid. He said he was sorry but the lasting effect has influenced my life tremendously.

To put it in perspective. I look like a muscular version of Tiger Woods and he looks like a fat version of Tim McGraw. Yeah it is very far fetched.