Thread: Bisexual? really a turn on?? GF?

ok, if your gf you really cared a lot about turned out to be bisexual and like flirted with girls and kissed a little with them would it really turn you on? i personaly would hate that. just seeing what other guys would think?

My boyfriend thiink is hot when I make out with chicks :/

being bi would not bother me as long as she was not cheating on me during our relationship but that goes back do u trust her? If involved for some time you need to re-evaluate the foundation of Your relationship. If new, I would see if things are progressing towards a greater trust between you.......after all, if u can't trust your partner, the relationship is on shaky grounds.

I think it helps a guys fantasy but not the relationship.

I've been in a situation like this before, and its hard to explain.
I use to be bisexual thats why.

Anyway, cheating is cheating though, man with woman, or woman with woman or man with man or woman with man. Its all the same.

If your wife or girlfriend is doing it behide your back and not telling you, or rather be with her than you, thats cheating.

Good luck guys.

First of all that is degenerate, i would leave her straight away and go and get a nice christian girl.

uhhhhh. my wife yes i would hate it. gf not so much

well i am a bisexual and my boyfriend doesnt like it...
he just sees it as more competition...
hmmmm....................

Forrest,

I'm sorry, I'm not a guy. But I am Bi-sexual. My EX was completely against it. He thought that me being Bisexual was essentially a disease.

If this bothers you, and you expect a future with her, then let her know that you don't approve. And you would like her to think about it from your point of veiw. Test her sometime and tell her your BI. Check her reaction, and maybe just maybe she'll check herself.

A lot of women say that they are BI, when they are just curious. So she may not be BI at all, she may just like the male attn. she recieves, or she isn't sure if she idolizes women or wants to be with them. So I think you might want to discuss these things with her, and tell her you don't approve.

Kissing ANYONE else is cheating, and even I as a BI believe that.
I believe for some men it is a turn on, but also at the other end of the spectrum for some it isn't. Its all relative... (That means it goes by the mans personal preference)

I hope I've helped.

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I'm a girl but if my bf was bi and did this to guys... I wouldn't know what to do! If he was flirting with them I'd tell him to stop because I was going out with him. Also I would ask him who he cared about more me or the guys that he liked! ~I LOVE DEREK

Well I'm bisexual, and my boyfriend can't stand it.
We have major trust issues, but we work through them. I would never cheat on him though. In my opinion, cheating is cheating. I would never do anything with a girl or guy unless my boyfriend and i had officially broken up.
I would talk to her about some limits.
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