I'm in my mid-twenties, married, and have only been with a girl ( and her bf) in bed once...

Now, I'm starting to think I'm developing a sexual attraction to women. When I'm attracted to a girl, in the back of my mind I wonder what it would be like to be in bed with her, how her skin would feel, how her breasts would look, how kissing her would feel like, etc. I have never allowed myself to think about that before, thinking I was too straight for that. But the thoughts keep coming back if I see someone who sparks a flame within me.

So, how do you know if you're bisexual or if you're just experiencing simple physical attraction.?? What happens if you don't address your sexual needs, even if you don't know what they are!??


I would not want her to "join me and my husband" in bed.

I am still very attracted to men.

Help anyone? Advice? thanks..